TAKEN

We’ve all been there. Trying to define if we are a “dom,” or a “sub,” or a “switch” when all we actually want is to have a fun time in bed with our partners – without having to think too much at every move, or barricade ourselves with agreements and contracts and societal expectations.

We just want to loosen up a little and feel held, desired, and TAKEN joyously. Or to feel free and delighted in the full spectrum of our desire, and not ashamed for having them. Feeling safe, feeling free, through living into our desire and our eros.

Then, they move too hesitantly, or you move too decidedly, and you clunk into each other again and you completely lose your fire. Ugh. Let’s just do the same old same old.

Why can’t we just give each other what we want?

Here’s the thing… desire isn’t harmful, wrong, dirty, or dangerous.

But we’ve internalised that it is. To the point of castrating all penetrative energy, and thus creating unsafety for everyone involved.

Young males are systemically shamed for even having erections, for having desires, for moving too fast, for wanting to have sex.

Young females are systemically taught that they are not safe, that they should armour and control to be safe.

And here we are.

Longing to find partners who have strong yielding natures, that know how to take and/or be taken, regardless of sex or gender, to embody an energy that desires and moves towards the desire.

Consent is not where it’s at, Attunement is.
That’s what TAKEN is all about.

Ready to tap into your desire and connect more deeply with your partner(s)?

TAKEN is a safe container. We will come into this with play and light hearts, slowly building towards scenes designed to gauge if we’re in connection. Expect a playful, heartfelt, and deeply consensual experience that gives you and your desire full permission to be present.

TAKEN is not gender-based and is a welcoming space for everyone.